Saturday, January 28, 2017

SHARE THE LOVE: Polyamory For Penis/P**sy (by Lea Mishell)

"Polyamory For Penis/P**sy"
by Lea Mishell

Hello Loves!! If you've been following along with my journey, thank you. Trust me, it has been QUITE the rollercoaster ride!

I've decided to once again allow the Universe to guide my Love my way. It worked before when I found Hubby. I believe it'll happen again if it hasn't already. In the meantime, in my observations and interactions as I am continuously educating myself on all things polyamorous, I am a member of a few polyamory-centered Facebook groups. In one of the co-ed groups, we've made it clear that we are not a swingers group and no nudity will be allowed. However, from time to time, a new member will come in, skipping past the pinned post, unknowingly breaking rules left and right. I cannot speak for anyone but myself but we are not polyamorous just for the sake of sex. We are not thirsty horny desperados out for the next notch on our belts. You can't build love overnight. Relationships take time. Sex can be instantaneous so if sex is your first thought when considering polyamory, stop. Clearly, you're not ready. Polyamory isn't about sex. Polyamory is about loving anyone you want without hurting others to do it. Polyamory is about honesty and transparency amongst all partners, romantic or not. But I digress. I know it will be a while before polyamory is as normal as homosexuality and same-sex marriage but to falsely associate love with sex doesn't help those of us that are genuinely and legitimately looking for love.

If you've read the past two articles (“How to Date a Married Woman” and “How to Date a Married Couple”), and you have a genuine interest in living polyamorously, I hope my column is helping you figure things out. Feel free to ask questions.

For more polyamory terminology, check out the MORE THAN TWO website:

If you would like to submit a question to SHARE THE LOVE, send an email to with SHARE THE LOVE QUESTION in the subject line.


Polyamorous and striving to be Permanently Positive, Lea Mishell is a wife, mother of 3, and an author of urban fairy tales and erotica. Her works can be found at

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