Wednesday, January 18, 2017

SHARE THE LOVE: How to DATE a MARRIED Couple (by Lea Mishell)

How to Date a Married Couple
by Lea Mishell

Hello Loves!! If you've been following along with my journey, thank you. Trust me, it has been QUITE the rollercoaster ride!

Now if you read my previous post, “How to Date a Married Woman”, you may know where I'm going with this. If you didn't, no worries. I'm sure you'll want to go back and read what I'm talking about. 

I've been actively dating outside my marriage for the past few years. Or should I say, I've been available to date. No worries, Ladies. I don't want your husbands, sons or boyfriends. I only date women; YOU might be more my type! As a couple, Hubby and I have had more “success” dating separately but at the moment, we're both poly single. We would love to date a woman together. Married couples can date single people or other married couples. There's a fit for us all. It's just not that simple to find that one person/couple to connect with. Based on our experiences, here's my advice for anyone interested in dating a married couple*.

One Person dating a Married Couple: connecting with both may not be as simple as one on one, however it isn't completely impossible. An individual may connect with one partner on a romantic level and intellectually with their spouse. Down the road, everyone develops romantic feelings for each other. Enjoy the increased love in your life!

Couple dating a Married Couple: I don't have any personal experience to draw from but I have friends that date couples and their beginnings were basically like the start of many relationships. One person met another. There's a connection. If all is done correctly,** everyone knows from DAY ONE of any currently established loves. A married couple may have outside loves that fall for each other simply from their shared experiences with each other. Again, enjoy the increased love in your life!

*Clearly, this advice is for anyone that is already living/considering living an ethical non-monogamous life. I'm not encouraging anyone to step outside their relationships without the knowledge or consent of their current loves. What you do with this information is your choice. I hold no responsibility for your outcome.


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Polyamorous and striving to be PERMANENTLY POSITIVE, Lea Mishell is a wife, mother of 3, and an author of urban fairy tales and erotica. Her works can be found at

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