Sometimes Your "Type" Might Be The Reason You're Single

Real Talk ....a lot of the time the main people who are always saying they can't find ANYONE are the same ones OVERLOOKING everyone ...based off our own desires and preferences. They have to be a certain height, weight and or build. If their hair is not kept a certain way or they don't have a certain look ....then they are NOT for us. It's one thing to have preferences but we need to understand the differences between a NEED and a WANT. Sometimes the person can give you everything you NEED but not everything you want. Honestly that leaves a lot room for developing a level of intimacy that can open the door to that very want at the end of the day. Learn to step outside of your TYPE or NORM ....because a lot of times that person ONLY exists in your MIND. Don't over think it ....just be open to person who may not have a big butt and a smile or thug tendencies. 
- James "Soulful Archer" Cotten Jr.
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Shallow Preferences will Keep You Single (Update by James "Soulful Archer" Cotten)

"REAL TALK ...you have already met someone that could have 

been a great compliment to your life. But you passed them up 

because they weren't rich enough, ass wasn't phat enough, 

their skin wasn't light enough or not dark enough, they didn't 

talk how you wanted ....too many times we let our preferences 

become the prevailing traits we think is so important in a our 

MIND .... And for those same reasons so many of us WILL 

continue to be SINGLE by our OWN CHOICE ...People are 

more then their looks and size of their wallets. If you keep 

chasing superficial things about a person .......what does that 

ultimately say about you ........change your attitude ..because if 

YOU were TRULY all of that ..you TRULY wouldn't be SINGLE 

RIGHT NOW anyway......lessons learned.." James 

SoulfulArcher Cotten



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