I believe women have been socialized to be emotional about sex. Less likely to be slut-shamed if you can claim emotional connection/love. Women within the last 30 yrs have more education, independent incomes, sexual autonomy, and birth control. We're new to the "hit it and quit it" game. As time goes on, we may be more able to decouple sex with emotion.
PS. - some of the sex I've had, I had no emotional connection with any of the men.
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